i'll take it under consideration

how to consider other people's needs and feelings when you, yourself, are under emotional duress

Can you help others if you first haven't helped yourself? I think of airplanes. Where they suggest that before putting a "mask" on someone else make sure that you first have a mask on youself. Is it selfish or is it responsible? Can you do both at the same time? Is it effective?

• Dinner parties over Zoom are more fun than I thought.
• Caring for each other remotely is more important than anything else.
• It's so easy for the days to blend together when you're spending all of your time in the same space.

There is no end To what a living world Will demand of you. -Octavia Butler